Here are some tools I've made in various counseling settings over the past five years.  Please let me know if you use any of these things or find them helpful, I'd be so glad to know how the Lord uses these tools!  Click here to email me.

1) Forgiveness & Reconciliation Agreement:

You've probably heard that it's not a good idea to keep lists in relationships.  Generally, keeping lists of who did what, why and when leads to the comparison game that only leads to hurt and confusion.  Sometimes, though, we need reminders for the things that are significant and worth remembering, especially the things that bring freedom and peace.  This forgiveness card has been a useful tool in helping couples commit to living out the forgiveness they've granted one another.  It's a simple card that states the names of the people involved, the issue they've wrestled with and received/granted forgiveness for and a place to sign.  Let me know if you use it!